Problem solved, it was indeed the frequency of 12 MHz that it needed to know.
I completely overlooked this setting, I had compared every setting in advanced options between win7 and 8.
Maybe It would be wise to add a warning when this value is not set for chips that need it.
I have added the logs of the working win8, in case your interested in comparing the responses.
On a side note, i could see it did not erase the chip because my run led was blinking (controlled by the firmware in the chip) after the erase.
Thank you for your quick reply and sorry for my mistake.
I completely overlooked this setting, I had compared every setting in advanced options between win7 and 8.
Maybe It would be wise to add a warning when this value is not set for chips that need it.
I have added the logs of the working win8, in case your interested in comparing the responses.
On a side note, i could see it did not erase the chip because my run led was blinking (controlled by the firmware in the chip) after the erase.
Thank you for your quick reply and sorry for my mistake.